It’s easy to get caught up in the act itself, the main event, even for a Pleasure Dom. Even if you get off by helping someone else get off, it’s easy to home in on getting to orgasm. But if that’s the only dimension you’re looking at, you won’t be maximizing anybody’s experience, including yours.

I started with a couple of things. A vibrator and a glass dildo. You don’t have to go into debt and buy the whole store. Be deliberate about it. And test what you buy to see if it’s going to be a hit. Some things just don’t slap. Over time, I got quite the collection. And when I broke them out on a date, there was lots of enthusiasm, salivating, and other forms of wetness just at the sight of it all.

For years, I resisted the idea of 'masculine energy.' It felt patriarchal, outdated, and too often used as a justification for toxic...

Ryan and I use a relationship framework in our coaching at The Cliteral Truth called The 7 Bridges of a Solid Relationship. Ryan...

A woman met a man online and decided to meet him for the first time in New York City. They spent the weekend together, and she hoped it...

“Were you trying to see how loud you could make me scream?” We all have a kink. That’s mine. I’m a Pleasure Dom. I love hearing things...

What’s a Pleasure Dom? It’s a style of dominance where the primary focus it to pleasure your partner. In return the Pleasure Dom gets a...

I was introduced to orgasmic meditation a few months ago, by a play partner, who had read about it, but had never experienced it. As I am...