Attraction is more than “Do I want to rip their clothes off?” and “Do they look good in pictures?”
 
In this session, we break attraction into three parts: physical, sexual, and personal. You’ll see why all three matter, why most people over-prioritize one, and how skipping personal attraction (values, character, life alignment) leads to long-term pain.
 
We’ll talk about the difference between chemistry and compatibility, how trauma bonds can feel like “soulmate energy,” and how to tell the difference between “I’m drawn to you” and “You’re actually good for me.”
 
You’ll learn:
The difference between physical, sexual, and personal attraction—and why all three matter
How to spot red flags early instead of explaining them away
Questions to ask yourself before progressing to the next bridge
Perfect for you if:
You keep picking the same kind of partner and getting the same outcome
You feel torn between “but the chemistry is amazing” and “this doesn’t feel healthy”
You want a clear, grounded way to decide if someone is worth building with
 
Join Lexie & Ryan for Bridge 1: Attraction — Wednesday,  Feb 4, 2026 @ 6 PM MT. Replay included.